Shannon's Journal Discussion

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So i wanted to post this here conserning DMSI

Yeasterday we had a party with costumes/suits theme. the hottest girl in the party was a 10 with a banging body, she is not from around. I found myself dancing and teasing her effortlessly, but man the shit testing off the scales. I saw her dancing and hiding behind betas just to see how i react! They all tried hitting on her half heartedly and everytime i swooped in and took charge. She did not let me kiss her, i tried about 4 times and everytime she backs off laughing as if tell me " come chase me! "

At some point i isolated her and we were drinking whisky from her bottle. I had her against the wall touching her, playing with her hair. She kept saying shit like: Does this ever work for you? Or funny enough she said you read the book the game. I kept saying irrelivant and shut up, and everytime she loses intrest i start negging her only for her to throw her ass on me.

Everytime i tried to kiss her she backed off, yet she was ok with me slaping her ass on different occasions. Anyways im not sure if she was being sniped but i know the auto poilt was on point. I kept trying and she kept backing off to ghe point i started to look lame.

Im sure i could have done a thing or 2 better but that was a major breakthrough for me. I really hope V3 wil deal with womens objections and nonsense shit testing. She wanted me but idk wtf she was thinking.

I'm not trying to be mean here, just real, but the point she said "does this ever work for you?". Is the point you should've just said "Nah never" and walked off and flirted with other girls. If she really did want you she would've chased the hell out of you at that point.. what you did was hand your balls to her on a platter and became boring at that moment, you accepted her frame of you chasing her and her being above you because you showed outright it didn't matter how much of a bitch she was you had no boundaries and were unwilling to walk away.

You gotta get her from thinking "hmm am I gonna let this guy **** me" to "damn I wanna **** this guy", and for that she needs to sense you could walk at any moment.
Particularly true for 10s because they're not used to it and it makes you the rarest among rare.

Thats just theory that you'd think makes sense, i did leave her many times but she did not come running back to me. That girl was not from around and i only had one shot.
Also i've said before i've tried playing less aggrsive and more stratigic. Didn't get me nowhere. Also my hands were all over her and she was smiling when she said if this ever works for me. Clearly it works, but you just cant win them all.

But you said the key word here which was "playing". You tried playing less aggressive. I'm not saying not to be aggressive, aggression is great, I'm saying you were outcome dependant and weren't willing to walk away from shitty behavior. I would've genuinely walked away at that point, I don't believe you can recover from "does this ever work for you", even if she's smiling, to me it's a sign she believes she's higher value than you and there's no coming back from that. But that's just my perception. And if she was in fact just shit testing with that statement and genuinely attracted to you, walking away at that point would have the potential to get her to wanna prove herself to you.
I totally agree with you on you can't win them all that's why I think cutting your losses earlier is better and if she comes back, great. Anyway, I'm just preaching outcome independance, that shit shows in your micro-behavior.
Please don't think I think I'm better than you or anything like that, I just don't like the state of the world ATM with girls thinking they're top shit and that they have magic vaginas so I'm just suggesting we flip the script and realise we deserve an abundance of great sex with chicks who aren't constantly trying to "test" us or believing we should be kneeling at their feet.

I agree with most of what you are saying bro, i know where you are coming from.
Its just that some lessons are best learned through experiance, im just 21 and im still learning. 1 month ago i was stonewalling so bad i could not even speak right! Now im in a great flow testing and experiancing DMSI greatness.