11-15-2016, 07:25 AM
Showed up at the office and found out that one of the Eastern European woman (E) who was supposed to help me for some field work had a meeting to attend. So departure time has been delayed by 2 hours. The other one (Y, the younger one with the hot body) shows up and ask me to reschedule some training that was due next week as she wants to take a week off to get out of the country. I really felt being jerked around and told her bluntly that I would reschedule it some time next year (I was really pissed, and it would be too late for her). She told me that she would talk to the second in command and to see if she could get me to reschedule earlier and she left.
About an hour later, I left with E and headed for the field. Two hours later I'm starving and suggest that we stop somewhere for a bite. I order something and she does the same. At the cashier she pulls out her credit card and insists to pay. No arguing here. Returned to work and got my feet soaked as was working in the creek and water got into my rubber boots. Other than the free lunch, there were no indications that E was affected. Throughout the day, I realised that I may have been a little hard on Y and pondered about acquiescing to her request.
Back at the office, I check my email and see one from Y which ask me to reconsider rescheduling the meeting to next week. The second in command did not entertained her request and left it to me to decide. I made my way to Y's office to tell her that I would accommodate her. On my way there, I saw her in the hallway and let her know. Upon hearing the good news, her demeanor changed and very rapidly she got hands on. She was drapped all over me, giving me side hugs giggling like a little girl. We were making our way to my office to finalize the rescheduling, she did not even see our manager walking towards us in the hallway who had this dumbfounded look on her face. Got to office, even more kino, lots of touching. When she found out that my socks were soaked, she raced to her office to get me a spare pair that she had and insisted that I wore them. I told her, that I would once my feet were dry. She left and about one hour later dropped by to check on me before she left. I ended up not using the socks. I did not want to show up at the gym wearing a pair of sky blue socks.
Not sure if what I saw from Y is a direct effect of DMSI or if she wanted to reinforce compliance to get what she wanted. I suspect that it could be a combination of both though.
About an hour later, I left with E and headed for the field. Two hours later I'm starving and suggest that we stop somewhere for a bite. I order something and she does the same. At the cashier she pulls out her credit card and insists to pay. No arguing here. Returned to work and got my feet soaked as was working in the creek and water got into my rubber boots. Other than the free lunch, there were no indications that E was affected. Throughout the day, I realised that I may have been a little hard on Y and pondered about acquiescing to her request.
Back at the office, I check my email and see one from Y which ask me to reconsider rescheduling the meeting to next week. The second in command did not entertained her request and left it to me to decide. I made my way to Y's office to tell her that I would accommodate her. On my way there, I saw her in the hallway and let her know. Upon hearing the good news, her demeanor changed and very rapidly she got hands on. She was drapped all over me, giving me side hugs giggling like a little girl. We were making our way to my office to finalize the rescheduling, she did not even see our manager walking towards us in the hallway who had this dumbfounded look on her face. Got to office, even more kino, lots of touching. When she found out that my socks were soaked, she raced to her office to get me a spare pair that she had and insisted that I wore them. I told her, that I would once my feet were dry. She left and about one hour later dropped by to check on me before she left. I ended up not using the socks. I did not want to show up at the gym wearing a pair of sky blue socks.
Not sure if what I saw from Y is a direct effect of DMSI or if she wanted to reinforce compliance to get what she wanted. I suspect that it could be a combination of both though.
INTJ
