Shannon's Journal Discussion

[Shannon]

#2 aims to cause them to perceive you as being much higher value than they are.

There's this concept that if women perceivea man to be of too much higher value than they see themselves, they 'auto reject' the man as they have to assume that they will get rejected. So if that concept is true, then this might actually backfire if it's aiming too high.

Maybe, if it was not balanced the way it is.

It's actually attempting to balance causing you to appear to be stunningly attractive with the affected feeling comfortable, natural and familiar with approaching and initiating and having sex with you, and balance these two in exactly the right proportion to cause the result to be a green light and action.

The end result (when this is balanced right) is that the greater the disparity between the perception of the user being stunningly beautiful and the affected not normally being "good enough", the more special they come to feel with regards to the user as a result.

In other words, here's an example scenario.

Let's say you're using 3.0.1 and you see (and successfully snipe the hell out of) a woman you consider an 8, and you yourself would normally be a 7.

Let's say that because the program affects her the way it does, this woman perceives you to be a 10, and decides she's "not in your league".

But... because of the feelings of attraction and her belief that you are so attractive, and because she somehow already feels like it is normal, natural, comfortable, familiar and reasonable for her to approach, initiate and have sex, she processes this discrepancy with the only explanation she can make sense of it with:

I must be very special to him, because even though he is out of my league, he has chosen me, and this is something that I feel comfortable with and familiar in doing, so somehow, it must already have happened at least once before, or he must be exceptionally open to me and approachable, again, because I am special to him and he is giving me special access and special consideration.