(11-06-2016, 09:57 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: I don't understand how it all works. If I didn't know better, i'd say sleeping with a girl is more an exercise of me getting her to do what she wants, than me doing what i want.
The story women want is "it just happened" - it's very hard to give strict rules like when she does x you do y because everyone is different but that's the general frame under which women justify sex with a new guy. "We went on a date, he was cool, we went back to his place JUST to watch tv/eat/get a drink/etc, the chemistry was great and it just sort of happened"
If I were to give you a "rule" it would be this - have fun on the date and don't escalate beyond quick pecks until she's back at your place. I know it's "reality tv" but this is probably the best example on camera:
@6:15
He took the date slow, went in for a quick kiss, pulled back, pretended like it was the end of their date and he would call her, walked back to the room to say goodbye, then started escalating.
If most PUA coaches saw him they would be screaming "BETA CHODE!, SHOW INTENT, NEG HER, DISQUALIFY HER, ESCALATE ESCALATE ESCALATE!!!" Most guys would be better off throwing out 90% of PUA material - especially if they're using subliminals or mones.
