@Sarge
Ahhh. This actually makes a lot of sense.
I didn't realize you were getting as much attraction and IOIs as you are. Sounds like you actually already have a style down, but there's just some kind of blockage keeping you from taking the next step. If that's the case, trust your natural instincts to guide you. They're probably more intuitive than you realize. v2.4 will clear that blockage eventually anyway.
Being completely honest, escalation was a problem for me too. Hell, still is. When I find myself actually falling for the chick, I have a hard time making moves -- that's what happened with #3. On that front, I don't know how much I can offer. My strategy (which has been successful) is to assume attraction and just push aggressively for sex until she gives a rather forceful "NO." Otherwise, I assume all soft resistance (anything other than NO) is last minute resistance.
If she says NO -- STOP. Even if you think she's really turned on. It's not worth it.
Sometimes, to make things fun, I'll ask her "what her intentions are." Many times, it just breaks the ice and she gets into what happens next.
I do have to point out though... that NSFM and OAA will help with these significantly, so we should probably advocate their inclusion in v3.0.
Ahhh. This actually makes a lot of sense.
I didn't realize you were getting as much attraction and IOIs as you are. Sounds like you actually already have a style down, but there's just some kind of blockage keeping you from taking the next step. If that's the case, trust your natural instincts to guide you. They're probably more intuitive than you realize. v2.4 will clear that blockage eventually anyway.
Being completely honest, escalation was a problem for me too. Hell, still is. When I find myself actually falling for the chick, I have a hard time making moves -- that's what happened with #3. On that front, I don't know how much I can offer. My strategy (which has been successful) is to assume attraction and just push aggressively for sex until she gives a rather forceful "NO." Otherwise, I assume all soft resistance (anything other than NO) is last minute resistance.
If she says NO -- STOP. Even if you think she's really turned on. It's not worth it.
Sometimes, to make things fun, I'll ask her "what her intentions are." Many times, it just breaks the ice and she gets into what happens next.
I do have to point out though... that NSFM and OAA will help with these significantly, so we should probably advocate their inclusion in v3.0.
