(11-05-2016, 08:01 AM)RTBoss Wrote: Any effects on your relationship with your wife?
Not much that would warrant reporting to be frank. But to be fair, we are taking care of a disabled child. Our 11 year old son is a high functioning autistic, but requires constant supervision. His behaviors (obsessions and meltdowns) has been a strain on our relationship since he was born. It's been a long slog but he's slowly improving. However, there is still a way to go for us to reach some sense of normalcy as a family. Because of his rigidity to rituals, one of us has to sleep with him each night. Otherwise, none of us are getting any sleep. So that does not leave us a lot of occasions for intimacy and sex. Four years ago, I was overweight with constant back aches and having difficulty keeping up with my son. I got fed up and I started running back again (In my youth, I was a long distance runner) to lose weight. As a result, I went from 210 to 165 lbs, btw, I am 5.9. I felt too skinny at 165 and decided to start weight lifting in addition to running about a year and half ago. I am now back at 185-190 with approximately 15 % body fat. I would like to bring the body fat percentage closer to 10%. I was hoping that the improved looks and the sub would increase attraction from my wife but I haven't noticed anything out of the ordinary apart from her occasionally saying that I am spending to much time taking care of my girlish figure
. Disclaimer: Previous to starting DMSI, my sub history has been two runs of AM6. There are a few things that I've have observed from my wife since I've started subs. She's deferring more to me when we have to make decisions (less arguing). As well, about 6 months ago, she's started back running to great effect and she's starting to look more attractive again (She's also lost weight).
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