DMSI, will you be the final piece of puzzle?

[SargeMaximus]

You don't need to relate deeply to a girl to sleep with her (I assume that's what you want?) in fact, relating deeply with a girl would probably work against you there. All you need to do is relate enough. I'd say learning how to ask questions and relate to her answers is your best bet in that area. It's what i do and I'm almost Asperger's.

Sure, I'd like to sleep with a girl, (or with a few different girls) but I also don't want to sleep with just anyone. I also suppose that just pure one night stands are not the ones I am looking for. I think that if I sleep with anyone, I'd do it with a girl whom I can see myself going further with. It doesn't have to be that way, but I want the girl, who possess traits and potential to be something more than just one night stand partner.

I don't know, but I think just having one night stands would probably just do me more emotional damage than giving me benefits. It's funny I say that as I haven't had any one night stands or sex before.

These make me feel somewhat conflicted, because DMSI is designed to make me sexually irritable. (So very sexually oriented, which may be lacking what I want/need) Yet, I suppose only sex is not something I want. I developed this feeling and thought when I was on the Sexually perfect lover sub, which led me to stop and taking a break and switch to other sub. (I don't remember which one(s)) On the other hand, I feel that sexual irristability or sexiness is something I lack the most in the necessary area, so that's the reasoning/thought behind doing DMSI. Also, it would make my life much easier, if girls approached. Perhaps a bad goal, but that is the intended goal of the sub.

Yes, that end part is true and there's nothing wrong with that.

In my opinion though, one night stands are how relationships start.

You get with a girl, she decides to sleep with you, and if she doesn't want to continue, she'll stop seeing you. But if she does, she will.

Try not to think of it as either a ONS OR a relationship. Instead just see everything as "relationship" and then things will get better because you won't be putting pressure on it.

I noticed something interesting.

After the long Tuesday - Thursday, I was able to fix the loop issue and listen to the subs every nights. And since I did that, I heard neighbor having sex every night. (Except today, but who knows I may catch them in the act when I go to bed.) But one weird thing was that I was in bed watching a video, and I think I heard my neighbor having sex. I took earphones off, and that sound was gone. I put them back on again, and I heard the sound again. I took them off again, and the sound was gone. Within last two nights, I heard neighbor having sex three times, (2 in my bedroom side and one in my living room side), and out of 3, I am sure two of them were just like what I described. (One, I am not so sure I lost the track of the sound when I took the earpieces off.)

Soooo, I am now starting to question if I am hearing things that is not there, and this developed within last two days, and this happened as I listened the subs two days in a row with supposedly corrected loop numbers. (I am not 100% sure as I didn't stay up entire time to check. )

Based on this, I can say interesting dynamics is going on with the DMSI 2.5.

1. It is making me hear people having sex, even when nobody is having sex.

2. It is making my neighbors having more sex. I caught my bedroom side couple doing it twice before, (one time was really vivid simultaneous orgasm of the guy and the girl, and the other time was the guy getting a blow or handjob. ), but I never caught my living room side neighbor. Perhaps it was coming from above, and in that case, I may have heard upstair neighbor having sex before, so it isn't too unusual. However, what is unusual is that I never caught them having sex too frequently. In fact I have heard only about 3~4 in total in about 1 year and 3~4 months of living in this place (except the last few days, which should add to 6 incidents of catching neighbors in action). Therefore, if it is the case that I have caught my neighbors in action, then I suppose the sub is making the neighbors having more sex. (by a lot)

Both scenarios are depressing. If 1 is the case, then the sub is causing me to hear aural hallucinations (and BTW, I never had a hallucination before or heard things), which can be dangerous that I should stop listening. If 2 is the case, it seems to be doing my neighbors huge favor, while adding envy, jealousy, horniness, and eventually melancholia and depression to me.

Interesting dynamics, but both concerning and saddening in certain sense.

Interesting. I had this on SM 3. My brother lost his virginity after being a social-less loner. The only thing that changed was I was talking to him regularly and I was on SM 3. Like it or not, people will pick up signals from us and sometimes they will get ideas on how to behave from us, which can lead to them having the same success. I call this "transference" and had asked Shannon to put something in DMSI to keep this from happening but apparently he hasn't perfected it yet.

I have noticed that I'm not transferring to others but if you have to your neighbors then obviously it's still a thing.

As for your feelings of jealousy and stuff, those are normal. Any guy hearing that and not getting any sex himself would feel the same way. I know because my landlord brings girls home sometimes and they f*ck upstairs and I can hear them.

But I've gotten to the point where it doesn't matter, I just keep focused on succeeding. So I'd suggest you do the same thing. Start focusing on becoming better with people and the sex will come on it's own.