DMSI, will you be the final piece of puzzle?

[Lucius]

Sure, I'd like to sleep with a girl, (or with a few different girls) but I also don't want to sleep with just anyone. I also suppose that just pure one night stands are not the ones I am looking for. I think that if I sleep with anyone, I'd do it with a girl whom I can see myself going further with. It doesn't have to be that way, but I want the girl, who possess traits and potential to be something more than just one night stand partner.

I don't know, but I think just having one night stands would probably just do me more emotional damage than giving me benefits. It's funny I say that as I haven't had any one night stands or sex before.

I can relate to this in a way, as in I had similar thoughts back in February when I joined IML. I did not want to admit it then, but this was a blatant sign of neediness. I started moving forward when I accepted that there is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with one night stands. I thought I had no problem with this, but deep down I did. I am not encouraging you to seek ONS, I just hope understanding this will help you to start moving forward as it helped me. If for one thing, it has made me start developing an abundance mindset when it comes to women, and that alone has increased my courage when I interact with them. If one says no to me, who cares? Rinse. Repeat.

I have not done DMSI by the way. I've just been testing what guys like Sicko and Chaos have been posting (showing women I'm a sexual being but refusing to put their p***sy on a pedestal), and I'm getting positive feedback - and I'm a virgin.