10-29-2016, 10:55 PM
(10-29-2016, 09:50 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: You don't need to relate deeply to a girl to sleep with her (I assume that's what you want?) in fact, relating deeply with a girl would probably work against you there. All you need to do is relate enough. I'd say learning how to ask questions and relate to her answers is your best bet in that area. It's what i do and I'm almost Asperger's.
Sure, I'd like to sleep with a girl, (or with a few different girls) but I also don't want to sleep with just anyone. I also suppose that just pure one night stands are not the ones I am looking for. I think that if I sleep with anyone, I'd do it with a girl whom I can see myself going further with. It doesn't have to be that way, but I want the girl, who possess traits and potential to be something more than just one night stand partner.
I don't know, but I think just having one night stands would probably just do me more emotional damage than giving me benefits. It's funny I say that as I haven't had any one night stands or sex before.
These make me feel somewhat conflicted, because DMSI is designed to make me sexually irritable. (So very sexually oriented, which may be lacking what I want/need) Yet, I suppose only sex is not something I want. I developed this feeling and thought when I was on the Sexually perfect lover sub, which led me to stop and taking a break and switch to other sub. (I don't remember which one(s)) On the other hand, I feel that sexual irristability or sexiness is something I lack the most in the necessary area, so that's the reasoning/thought behind doing DMSI. Also, it would make my life much easier, if girls approached. Perhaps a bad goal, but that is the intended goal of the sub.
