Patti Wrote:Ryan lives on the Planet Sex Pest in a development called Delusional! hahahhaha But it’s all good, I don’t think he lives there alone.
Just messen’ wif ya buddy!
Ok Ryan has gotten way too much flack for his post. I know you're just kidding Patti but seriously guys he meant the exact same thing Shannon said about creating the environment comfortable for sex just in different words. If I had to describe the way I do escalation I would describe it almost exactly like Ryan, and yes it works just about every time. You're all saying the same things in different ways, seriously :p It's just the difference between saying you have to "create the environment" to leave space for escalation, or you "don't push it" to leave space for escalation. Two ways of describing the same approach whichever mindset works to get there will depend on the individual but both leave space for escalation to where she will either give obvious clues to progress or might even progress it herself. If you're normally a pusher backing off will feel like doing nothing. If you normally do nothing, purposefully creating that space will feel like you're doing something.
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