I've tried being zen the last month with my friends who were insecure and kept tooling me. I told them no in a respectful and direct way but non gave a f#*k. Even women around felt like i was boring or wanna be tough guy.
Then about one week ago i snapped and stood my ground when my friend ( natural with women, insecure, tattoed, everyone fears him ) tried to tool me. His frame crashed and was reacting to me. A girl who watched this happen was looking at me as if she saw a 9 inch d1ck.
2 hours later he came to my room and asked if we could hang out, the next day the same girl hugged me ( shoved my head in her t1ts ) from behind when i was sitting.
So im with Sarge and Chaos on this one.
Zen on the inside, Bad boy on the outside.
Then about one week ago i snapped and stood my ground when my friend ( natural with women, insecure, tattoed, everyone fears him ) tried to tool me. His frame crashed and was reacting to me. A girl who watched this happen was looking at me as if she saw a 9 inch d1ck.
2 hours later he came to my room and asked if we could hang out, the next day the same girl hugged me ( shoved my head in her t1ts ) from behind when i was sitting.
So im with Sarge and Chaos on this one.
Zen on the inside, Bad boy on the outside.
INTJ