Spiral's Sex Magnet 2011 journal

[Shannon]

Well yes a woman may not always initiate, though sometimes they do, I've seen it However, what I was getting at was that it's always the woman's decision when she's going to have sex, you can't force her to ^^ but you can guide it. And I notice by caring less about it and being able to walk away without it, she'll want it that much more. I mean, I've had girls tell me to come over and f- them with this mindset and I didn't do anything nor have I met them yet. But of course, if she doesn't take action to seduce, then you can speed that up and push them along.

BTW, isn't your sex magnet program all about getting women to come and seduce you? How is that me initiating anything?

Ryan

A woman will only choose to have sex if she is thinking with her conscious mind. If she is, she's not aroused enough. If you do your job right in seducing her, she will always want to have sex with you. Once you press the right buttons, her choice has been made for her on an animal level, and she has no choice but to respond to her sexual urges. This result will vary from woman to woman based on her age, experience, background, thinking style and physiology, but trust me. The choice is yours, not hers, if you're doing it right.

To get a woman in bed, you must make her want to get in bed with you. To get a woman to have sex with you, you must make her want to have sex with you. The choice was yours in these cases because you decided first... "I want to have sex with her." and then you set about to making it happen.

You cannot force a woman, no. But only a moron needs to. Women love sex. You just have to get her to decide she wants it enough to make it her top priority for the short term. In other words, do what it takes to make her so aroused that she cannot choose anything else. Once the emotions and the animal body take over, it's a done deal.

If you want to move a mountain by yourself, with a shovel, do you hit the mountain until it moves over? No. You either start moving the mountain one shovel full at a time, or if it's a stone mountain, you dig under it until it moves where you want it to.

Likewise, with a woman, you don't force her to have sex with you. You create the environment and experiences around her to which her natural response is to have sex of her own free will and desire. In other words, to get water to flow, you must either push it (which we don't want to do here) or allow it to follow its natural course downhill.

Turn her on, and she will want sex. Make her feel safe with you, and she will be comfortable enough to have sex. Make sure she trusts you, and she will choose sex when the last moment arrives. Make sure she has enough privacy to be comfortable having sex. And know how to touch her, talk to her, make her feel sexually aroused. Put this all together, and she'll be having sex with you more than you thought possible.

Women love a man who can make them feel safe, comfortable and free to have sex because they love sex and they are so restricted by society. Find a woman who wants sex, and then liberate her. Her gratitude will show in how good she makes you feel as a result.

Sex is YOUR choice. If it's not, you're doing something wrong.