DMSI v2.4

[SargeMaximus]

Hating women isn't what brought the results -- it was the alpha attitude that comes along with it. You can like / love women and still be that alpha that doesn't let women run over him. In my DMSI experience, women are much more fun and enjoyable when I don't "hate" them, but still maintain strong boundaries, letting them know that my time and energy won't be wasted.

Yeah me and my social skills coach talked about this today actually. Not just with women but even in sales, hatred gets me results.

So he suggested I start keeping a journal of my days and logging what mood I was in, how people treated me, if I got appointments, etc. Since I already do I'll just copy and paste from my journal on here for him.

As for the hatred vs. love thing: It's an old argument but more and more I'm thinking there's something to hatred that just works better. I was comfortable, pleasant and had lots of people confiding in me doing sales today but got nothing. Whereas I know if I was in my hatred mood I would have gotten one.

That being said, I would very much like to move on and make being healthy and being attractive work. I just don't believe it does. I honestly don't.

There's a reason why when I'm full on hate-mode I get what I want but when I'm in social "good" mode I get nothing.

@SargeMaximus

I can't speak to your situation but I can say that your ideas intrigue me and I understand the logic behind them.

I can only say that I don't want a woman with those issues in my life. And so my point was more that this attraction thing in DMSI seems to work more than skin deep. It seems to be honing in on my other preferences too. Preferences that are more than physical beauty and in addition to physical beauty. I don't know how else to say it but I do know I'm glad you said something so I can clarify.

I apologize if this or any thing else I posted got you self-conscious in a bad way. I want you to post your ideas and feel free to do so. Your posts get me thinking in ways I never expected. I learn from you and hope you can learn from me.

Thanks man, I appreciate it.

I've got an issue with socializing. Sometimes I'm a rockstar, other times I'm a retard (no joke). I do think I have borderline asperger's, but have also developed quite the charisma which helps in sales among other things.

But yeah, I hear you. I wouldn't want women with certain issues in my life either. The only reason I felt I should mention it is that I'm afraid I'll not get anything out of the program if that's the kinds of women it attracts. Or (worse yet) it may only attract retards like me. :/