09-19-2016, 10:01 PM
To clarify for Shannon, it is not just B. though. Since I started MSI I have met one girl I am very attracted to, and a couple more I am also interested in. That said, I feel a bit stuck as I am not great at escalating unless some clear signals were given first, but I have not gotten it. So far MSI has given me many effects as described in the first post, so I know my mind is processing it. I am just waiting for its main goal of making me irresistible to start working.
I listened to 5 loops while asleep for Monday, as usual. I had language class in the evening. I talked to some friends and got to know others, but it's as usual. I do notice I might be getting more comfortable talking to very attractive girls, as if they're just the average person. I also thought about B. and decided to put my attention elsewhere. I can find a better match, and there are plenty of other girls to meet so no need to think too much over this.
I am currently reading How To Win Friends & Influence People, and though I find it somewhat formulaic and dated, the advice given is still very helpful, including for dating, and I made a list of the principles outlined. There are many so I will memorise and implement it gradually, a few at a time.
One advice I like is about the importance of remembering and calling people by their names, because that's what people want to hear, and they feel appreciated that they are remembered. I am trying to do so for anyone I meet that I might see again. Another plus is that I tell people about this when meeting them and it gives me an interesting and non-cliché topic to launch a conversation from.
I listened to 5 loops while asleep for Monday, as usual. I had language class in the evening. I talked to some friends and got to know others, but it's as usual. I do notice I might be getting more comfortable talking to very attractive girls, as if they're just the average person. I also thought about B. and decided to put my attention elsewhere. I can find a better match, and there are plenty of other girls to meet so no need to think too much over this.
I am currently reading How To Win Friends & Influence People, and though I find it somewhat formulaic and dated, the advice given is still very helpful, including for dating, and I made a list of the principles outlined. There are many so I will memorise and implement it gradually, a few at a time.
One advice I like is about the importance of remembering and calling people by their names, because that's what people want to hear, and they feel appreciated that they are remembered. I am trying to do so for anyone I meet that I might see again. Another plus is that I tell people about this when meeting them and it gives me an interesting and non-cliché topic to launch a conversation from.
