Not much to report since the last time I posted here. Apart from the baseline IOI's (smiles and stares), I haven't seen any signals that would indicate an increase in attraction from the opposite sex. The only thing that I've observed is renewed interest from a colleague of mine of Eastern European origin who was really into me when she first started here. It kind of died down when she found out I was married. Yesterday, she borrowed my phone charger to charge her phone battery. I did not make much of it at that time, but later on she called me twice to get clarification on something that we both working on. I don't believe that she needed my input to complete the work. I believe that this is noteworthy as I haven't heard from her in weeks. We'll see what happens in the future.
To be frank, I haven't felt the aura for awhile, apart from this morning when I laid my eyes on this gorgeous receptionist when I dropped my car at the dealership. I felt the aura kicking up. I don't feel particularly needy and I am at peace. I don't get angry as much anymore and I realize that I need to let go, as there are situations which are totally out of my control. I have no power on what people do and slowly realizing that its just not worth it to get flustered by the crap that people sometime throw your way.
Being an introvert, the sub has worked wonders in my social interactions with people. I am becoming more quick witted and I am realizing that I have a dark sense of humor that is surfacing. Some of my colleagues are appreciating. I managed to make the second in command in my division laugh out of control with something I said in a meeting. She even commented on it afterwards after we were in the kitchen. So to make a long story short. No out of this world interest from the opposite sex. However, I fully intend to run this sub until version 3 comes out as I think that the work under the hood is worth the price of the sub by itself.
To be frank, I haven't felt the aura for awhile, apart from this morning when I laid my eyes on this gorgeous receptionist when I dropped my car at the dealership. I felt the aura kicking up. I don't feel particularly needy and I am at peace. I don't get angry as much anymore and I realize that I need to let go, as there are situations which are totally out of my control. I have no power on what people do and slowly realizing that its just not worth it to get flustered by the crap that people sometime throw your way.
Being an introvert, the sub has worked wonders in my social interactions with people. I am becoming more quick witted and I am realizing that I have a dark sense of humor that is surfacing. Some of my colleagues are appreciating. I managed to make the second in command in my division laugh out of control with something I said in a meeting. She even commented on it afterwards after we were in the kitchen. So to make a long story short. No out of this world interest from the opposite sex. However, I fully intend to run this sub until version 3 comes out as I think that the work under the hood is worth the price of the sub by itself.
INTJ