(09-01-2016, 03:29 PM)Shannon Wrote: The ego balancer is there to prevent false ego. It's there to prevent you from becoming an arrogant, egotistical overblown self centered asshole - not because that is bad for someone else, but because it is bad for you, and makes you blind in ways that tend to destroy success. Has nothing to do with confidence other than to keep your confidence levels from going off into the stratosphere when you don't have real reason for them to be there, and you can't actually back that up with results if you need to.
I caught myself being prideful this morning ("I'm not going to chase her, I'm worth more than she is, she needs to chase me") out of insecurity and it made me think of the above statement you made Shannon. What would happen if I developed confidence around girls through AM6 but didn't yet feel like I could back it up? Especially when some significant event happens that would make me question my newfound confidence (say like loosing a girl because I'm feeling so confident that I don't care). Would the ego balancer "balance" out my self confidence with humility (i.e. undermine it because it's like "woah, we're getting too confident here, we're going to lose this girl because he's too confident")? Or am I over thinking things?
