08-29-2016, 03:09 PM
(08-29-2016, 03:03 PM)Dzemoo Wrote: yeah its a problem because i seem to have no boundaries on dmsi she said she wants boundaries from me (but i dont care about boundaries or controlling her)
she also said she think i am under some spell oder black magic and she wants to help me with a friend of her lol
i cant believe my life right now
Boundaries aren't about controlling other people, they're about saying "no" when you want to. So, if she wants to have sex but you don't, you say no, and hold firm. If she gives you drama, walk away.
Have you read any of Blackdragon's stuff? It might help. He's big on no drama relationships. I honestly think it's probably the next level for you.
