DMSI 2.3 so far so good

[SargeMaximus]

Have you ever considered that the more a woman tries to shit test you, the higher value she thinks you are, and the more she's trying to verify that? That's why they shit test in the first place. They think they have found a real alpha. So they shit test. Like "Prove it."

Yeah but a real alpha doesn't have to prove it because it's obvious. Like gravity.

Sarge, you are thinking like a man. Women don't think like a man. They think like a woman.

As a result, they shit test - ESPECIALLY when it's "obvious", because to her, it's not obvious until he disambiguates himself from the sheep in wolf's clothing. Lot of guys are good at faking it to a point, but she is only interested in the man who really is an alpha.

That's why she blew it and then texted him back. She wants to see if she can salvage it, and in fact by the sound of it, may actually still be shit testing him. Because he passed the test by blowing her out.

To a guy its much simpler. Can this guy best me at X? Then he's more alpha than me, and the case is closed.

Glad I'm thinking like a man.

In all seriousness, I think it's safe to say I'll never get it. I've had times where I never wavered for the girl, thus "passing" the shit test, but nothing ever became of it. Whereas other times, being more beta leads to more things for me. Especially in sales lately. So yeah, don't think I'll ever understand it lol.

It's all good Sarge. It took some of us a while to catch on to these tests as well, myself included. It finally clicked for me when I realized that my alpha behavior already made me different than 95% of the men out in the world. That means for most women, finding an alpha is a rare commodity. That's why they give those tests, to be sure of themselves that you are indeed an alpha. And no, alpha's are not meant to pass them all. But if you stay true to your core values, people, let alone women, will subconsciously have a deep respect for you. And rest assured, women will still remember you, even if things didn't turn out as you hoped.

That's encouraging, thanks man.

And yeah you're right, any woman I've come across again after being away for a while seems to be taken by me suddenly. Just need to ask them out I guess lol