Shannon's Journal Discussion

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I think you are here really into something. I remember a while ago talking with a girl about how men have to do all the work by approaching women. She said, she was often approaching men (as she was single), but they didn't get it most times. There I said that the passive way you women do such things doesn't count. She laughed. So they might really believe they are approaching by doing all the stuff.

That's exactly what I'm talking about man and I'm going to address your post and Steven's post all at once. About 2 years ago former female friend/classmate of mine broke up with her BF at the time. She would text much more than is normal and my intuition kept telling me she was attracted and I should try something. To make a long story short...I was right. But not everyone would believe that to be obvious enough. Shit, I frankly don't think that was obvious so I can't blame others for missing shit like that.

i think both 'not seeing' the interest and not acting on it comes from the idea that we are not worthy/entitled. so that needs to be solved first before we get the results. and i am thinking this is a harder problem to solve than getting others to be attracted or interested in us (and going the rest of the way)...
i had a friend who would be called a 'natural' and he had this certain belief that he could attract ANY woman. i have seen many times girls holding hands with other guys still giving him smiles, looks etc.
i also have noticed with myself many times that when i am sure the girl wants to talk to me/see me etc, i am in a more flirty, talkative flowing state and everything just falls into place, i remember the perfect thing to say from the highschool yearbook i read 20 years ago (i swear this happened).
so if the subs get me in that flowing state, or remove the blockages, i can take care of the rest that's my expectation, and so far AM6 has already exceeded that.