08-17-2016, 06:51 AM
(08-17-2016, 04:36 AM)Sash Wrote: atleast your good looking enough to get online matches and dates. Large majority of men can't get nothing online.
I'm a black man in the American historic south -- aka, the former slave states, aka the former Confederate States of America.
Trust me, my looks give me no advantage. What does give me an advantage is a refusal to accept societal conditioning, an unwavering loyalty to myself and my value system, and taking an intense look at life and reality.
Look -- whether you want to believe it or not, you have to realize that the dating scene is no different than any other market. There's a profound parallel between capitalism and the sexual marketplace. If your dating profile is designed to present you as a "cool dude" with the underlying message being "I want you to love me for who I am," you're gonna fail. Your profile should present what you have to offer in terms of value and improving a woman's life.
Essentially, your profile should have more in common with an Amazon item listing than a biography of your life (don't take this literally). Become comfortable with being a commodity, because that's pretty much what you are -- and that goes for women too. The subtext of any relationship (and men know it) is: I'm going to grant you limited access to my mental and physical resources (including my social network and social activities) in exchange for your companionship and sexual access on demand.
Women know this too, and are actively trying to change the sexual economic landscape with various social initiatives. The whole, "YOU DON'T HAVE ANY RIGHT TO MY BODY, SH*TLORD" crap that you see these days? Think about it -- what do you think the goal is for that? Yep, increased bargaining power in relationships. Artificially increase the price of sex and men who are either ignorant of the marketplace trends or refuse to believe them will pay it.
This is my goal as a modern man: Invest as little as possible to gain as much sex and companionship as possible. I keep track of how much I spend on each woman and I try to keep the monetary investment below $50 until we're having sex on a regular basis. Then, I'll up the amount a little bit.
HOWEVER, the only way you can pull this off is if you have something else of value so that you can get away with not buying drinks and dinner. Instead of wanting women to "love you for who you are," make yourself a man of value that women want.
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Or, stop p*ssing Shannon off long enough for him to make DMSI into a masterpiece. People went nuts when I suggested that Shannon could sell a fully-realized version @ $500, but they were being shortsighted. You spend $70 on a dinner with a woman. You go on six dates in a summer and you've sent $500. One payment to him for $500 and boom.
Oh yeah, happy b-day Shannon.
