08-16-2016, 01:51 PM
(08-16-2016, 01:03 PM)Steven Wrote: @chaosvrgn
When you talked about women giving IOIs and that being associated with them being aroused to the point of being wet, would you please give some examples because I think there would be a difference between IOIs such as a hair toss versus a woman squeezing her legs tighter and tighter together.
Here's the M story. Yes, I feel really bad about this now. I was going through some serious sh*t on AM6 that I'm finally over: http://subliminal-talk.com/thread-7546-p...#pid115316
In regards to IOIs, you're absolutely right. There's a huge difference between a hair toss and a woman squeezing her legs together. By the time the latter starts happening, she's crazy wet. If you're near a woman and she's doing that and you don't start flirting, you're missing out on some prime p***y.
Here's how I do it: I've categorized body language cues by level. I try to get her to escalate levels at a natural speed. Too fast and she shuts down, begins to sl*t shame herself. Too slow and you risk her getting bored (happened to me about a month ago). Once you begin the escalation, you're not longer a potential provider. You're a potential lover and she wants you to act like it. You start going back into provider territory and she'll ghost you.
So, I try to escalate at a natural speed, starting with the basic cues -- prolonged eye-contact, her looking down and smiling, hair flips...
To the next cues -- hair TWIRLING (where she twirls her hair around her fingers), head bowing, that seductive, smirking look while she's talking to you. At this point, I usually start touching her. Shoulder. Comfortably. If we're on a couch, I make a joke about how far away she is, that I can't hear her. Put my arm around her.
At this point, if she touches you (and I know some of the other folks are gonna disagree), you might've f*cked up. Women hate being overt, so the fact that she had to touch you first kinda puts you in "boyfriend" status. Usually, when this happens, I escalate -- HARD -- to try and salvage.
Anyway, I start pushing for kissing and all that stuff once I get to the squirming in the chair, bouncing their legs, etc. etc. etc.
And here's the controversy. How do I escalate? I start revealing more and more of my "dark," yet playful side. Doing things socially unacceptable. If they tell me to stop, I clown them for it. Yada yada. You get the picture.
