Shannon's DMSI V2.2 Journal

[Shannon]

I have had multiple women I have dated tell me the same thing. "I don't want to have kids, but I will do it for you." It comes from a woman being so deeply in love with a man, and trusting him so much, that she will do nearly anything to show him how much she loves him.

Shannon,

I would like your perspective on something.

You say that you value loyalty and trust, as do I. Now, your quote reminded me of my personal experiences with regards to loyalty.

If these women felt this strongly for you, why do you think they cheated on you? I am assuming (maybe falsely?) they did because of a number of your stories and the position you are now in.

Thanks in advance for your insight.

None of the ones who said this to me cheated. Only those who did not want kids at all, or definitely wanted kids, cheated. Those who said they didn't want to, but would for me, never cheated. Those relationships ended because of things like dishonesty on their part. I don't put up with dishonesty, because without honesty, I cannot trust her, and if I cannot trust her, we don't have much reason to be seeing each other. No matter how good the sex is.