(08-10-2016, 10:17 AM)Rayhon Wrote: A misogynist is a person who hates or doesn't trust women. Misogynist is from Greek misogynḗs, from the prefix miso- "hatred" plus gynḗ "a woman." The English suffix -ist means "person who does something."
Yes, they've expanded the definition so society can vilify every man as a "misogynist" if he points out bad female behavior. Seriously, look at that definition and critically analyze it. Who in their right minds believes that "hatred" and "mistrust" are mutually exclusive? If I'm suspicious of something, that means I automatically hate it?
The original definition (just look at Wikipedia) referred to systematic hatred and oppression. That's why certain social groups claim that misandry (the opposite of misogyny) doesn't exist. According to them, there's no systematic oppression of men, meaning a woman can NEVER be accused of misandry (see a pattern forming...?) Dr. Googleman will explain HERE.
But, I actually agree with you. I don't go around "abusing" (is it abuse if you still willingly and enthusiastically sleep with the person afterward) anyone, men or women. I got laid last night (in the back of a car, even) and didn't resort to any disrespectful tactics. I was just being really witty and showing that I possessed a lot of respect and love for myself (thanks AM6!).
Consider this: Why do you need to consider them immature or somehow place them beneath yourself for having a different worldview? Do you really need Shannon to justify your views? If what's working for you works, why not just shrug those threads off and laugh your way to endless, high-quality, respectful nookie?