Shannon's DMSI V2.2 Journal

[K-Train]

Yeah, I'm aware as to why they don't want it. My argument is that, as men, we SHOULD want it rather than wanting to be completely passive. I'm not interested in a sub that brings 10/10's to me, but then I freeze because I'm not used to it. Someone else (I think Ricardo, in CatMan's thread) said that men "will be happy" just to have the attention. I want to Develop Maximum Sexual Irresistability, not "Receive Maximum Female Validation."

But yeah, that autopilot is RIDICULOUS. And you don't even realize you're doing it until after the fact. What I'd do to feel like that 24/7...

EDIT: And don't get me wrong, I'd LOVE to get rid of "hunting" too. But the end goal should be easier access to sex, to get an edge. If that means making hunting as easy as possible, that's the way we should go.

See, I honestly understand that 1000% because truth be told the majority of the guys here (myself included) aren't laying waste (figuratively speaking of course) to multiple ladies per day/week. So to have beautiful ladies approaching or at the very least making it OBVIOUS that they want your DNA is a dream come true and a welcome change. That said, when I used to approach regularly there was a certain feeling of...masculinity that I got regardless of whether i got rejected. Part of me felt more like a man for being able to go after what I wanted. I've been relatively passive recently and after a while that wears on me because I feel like I'm not going after what I want which produces a feedback loop in me emotionally.

Here's how I see things:

Many men: <---------M W--------->
Men on the hunt: M-------------> W--------> .... M-----> W--> .... M---->W
Original goal of DMS (if running sub as a man): M <----------W
What's happening: M....Hm, should I go get her? W...!....?....Come get me!
What needs to happen: M--------><-------W OR M<-----W , both being acceptable

Yup pretty much. I think this would please both camps. The guys that want to just live their life and have women come to them and the guys who want to hunt. Typically, a woman who is really attracted to you is going to reduce how much you have to "work" anyway but that "work" is relative depending on the guy.