Shannon's DMSI V2.2 Journal

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What im saying is, we need to identify that "it" factor and magnify it. Getting women to initiate sex in public is next to impossible without it.

So what exactly do you guys think that "it" factor is? Wealth/fame/power?

What I'm about to say will be challenged by someone making the argument that many inherit wealth/fame/power, so let me begin by acknowledging that yes those things are indeed inherited by some people.

What I'm putting forward is something I've observed in guys successful with women, and as a truism by virtue of the fact that I've lacked it for most of my life and suffered the consequences—and that is being confident in one's own skin. Yes confidence can come with the territory if you're a good looking guy, but there are plenty of guys who are not particularly good looking (or rich or famous) that do well with women because they self identify as:

• Incredibly attractive - as this is a matter of perception and if you believe something strongly it doesn't matter what others think/you can sell that reality/it's not delusion if you truly believe it
  
  
• Completely and utterly deserving of socialization, sex, and everything in between with any woman they're attracted to, regardless of how beautiful they are perceived to be—and the potential intimidation factor of their beauty/status is mitigated by my first point which is that self-perception is so incredibly strong AND the firm belief that from a purely primal and selfish perspective, it is your birthright as a man to attract and bed the women you're attracted to, especially the most beautiful ones, and as many of them as possible to boot—which defines our role as seed sowers
  
  
• Lastly confidence needs to be sky high or as I've heard it described: Confidence beyond one's own ability to justify it (with completely acceptance of that inability)
  

These qualities I believe will have a powerful impact and they sort of play into the celeb vibe that people are talking about, except I regard them as internal foundations that may or may not manifest in a perceived celeb status but will certainly result in extraordinary success with women ranging from everything that leads up to sex to sexual performance itself.

PS Yes, this is male-centric and I'll leave the interpretation up to Shannon
PPS I think most of the guys interested in this sub are straight