(07-15-2016, 12:42 PM)Tobi Wrote: have you ever tried an open relationship choas? One stable girlfriend who you connect with and other girls on the side when you have an 'itch'
I have not tried an open releationship yet but might it a try later on. The idea of sharing a person who I am close to turns me off. there is one thing sharing a fwb and another of a girlfriend
Nope. Not a fan of open relationships. With the advent of online dating apps and social media, women are bombarded with attention and advances from potential suitors. These relationships are generally one sided, with the woman enjoying the "open" aspect much more than the men. Now, I could be selfish and demand that the woman stay monogamous and allow me to roam, but again -- not really my cup of tea. What I crave is akin to a "soulmate."
And not on some, "I want someone to accept me for who I am." No, I want someone to help push me to be greater. I'm already crazy self-critical and constantly striving for self-actualization and greatness. I'm an INTP -- we possess the [Ti] cognitive function, which serves as a crazed, abusive slave driver at times, forever deconstructing and reconstructing my reality and my sense of self.
I guess... I want a muse. Hey Shannon, when's that Attract Your Perfect Muse sub coming out?
Not gonna lie, guys. I have considered running Attract Your Perfect Financially Wealthy Lover for business reasons.
On the DMSI front -- most of the resistance has passed. A lot quicker than earlier versions of DMSI. Not sure whats up with that, but if this "super quick resistance" is a new technology, kudos to Shannon. There was a... 25 minute period where I felt absolutely horrible, full of fear, unable to move. Then, it passed. My mood has been gradually increasing to the point that I know my late night writing session will be super productive. Full of energy and motivation now.
