(07-15-2016, 11:02 AM)LionKing Wrote: I've had that exact same experience, so I know the feeling. Although for me its also about "do I really just want sex and sex and sex, because sex is just sex... is this just me trying to make up for something; if I let go of this craving, could I just go for deeper, supportive relationships that'd also help me in my work as a stabilizing base?". But its not that easy, since even you used the work "should", which to me signals that there's probably (as there is for me) guilt and/or shame about even wanting the goals of DMSI so bad to prioritize them for a while. A 'good' man should work on his business, not on this silly women stuff that feels so awkward and difficult in any case. I feel like that too, but also that you gotta be true to what you want - even if it seems childish. Those women issues with meeting women are not going to handled without focus, me thinks.
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Man #1: Damn, What's the point of all this meaningless sex? I need something deeper, genuine, you know.
Man #2: Gosh, it's been years since I had a good sex, you see, my angel of a girlfriend isn't really responsive in bed anymore. I so need a good sex right now.
Is there any pleasing? Nope, there is not. Why can't we have both things at the same time?
