06-16-2011, 04:58 PM
(06-16-2011, 10:23 AM)Ryan Wrote: Good job, Tony =) I think you did the right thing by being direct and honest with her. It feels good to get rid of those back and forth games, huh? Look, even if she does have a boyfriend...women are always on the prowl for a better, future suitor. Keep going. If you really want to be with this girl, you are doing things correctly...Letting her know you won't proceed any further unless she is single. It'll make her think about it. I'm proud of you man! =)
Ryan
in addition: you seem to be having fears of actually opening yourself to a woman emotionally...just be yourself. Being direct and honest, I believe, works like magic. A woman loves a man who can open up to her and tell her how he feels...don't be afraid to share your feelings. And as for your insecurities, what Spiral said above. I would disagree with...a woman will feel so much closer to you knowing you're not afraid to admit your own flaws...It makes you seem much more down-to-earth, we aren't perfect here guys. Women don't expect us to be either. I love telling women how afraid of rollercoasters and flying I am...it makes them feel so much more comfortable with me. And a true Alpha has no reason to be afraid to admit his flaws...
Thank you Ryan, Its always been hard thing for me to do was open my self emotionally to women. Ill remember this, it makes sense and since I did that and lived (hear me subconscious?) next one will be better. The ball is in her court and now i can stop wondering and worrying and also telling you guys my flirting adventures with her.
@ Spiral funny thing was i wasn't jumbling my words any worse then how i normally talk. I was nurvous but seemed to talk decent(except i am catching a cold and my eyes are watering bad and my throat is clogged) because of this She had asked me if i was going to cry.
Tony
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Success is having the courage, determination, & the will. Failure is making excuses why you didn't succeed & blaming others around you because you didn't
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Success is having the courage, determination, & the will. Failure is making excuses why you didn't succeed & blaming others around you because you didn't