07-12-2016, 02:00 PM
(07-12-2016, 12:58 PM)Shannon Wrote: Update: Bartendress now ignoring me. Drink and bar virtually empty. This might be an ASD. She left the bar and went into the kitchen again after looking at me, seeing my drink empty. She's never let my drink go empty at an empty bar before. In five years.
Now she asks me, "Shannon, you okay?" In the tone and timbre a loving wife would. While sering someone else. Very odd.
She delivers my drink, and takes my empty plate, but never brings my check. Usually she is prompt about that.
I recognize this behavior. Happens to me all the time (except for the "are you ok?" bit).
Do you think it's because you didn't respond to her and now she thinks you've rejected her? Or are you sticking with ASD?