Woceyes journal

[woceyes]

two things hit me today questions with no real reasoning behind it. Kind of a spur of the moment thing.

The first is Shannon when you made the alpha male program was there something in there about stop fantasizing/dreaming more of an unrealistic woman you wanted vs the real woman? or was this just a side effect of not being needy means not fantasizing?

The second is as the prize and all these women chasing and wanting me. Is it possible that i have an effect on the women when i am near and after i am out of site they snap back into reality or break free from my snare. So in other words they can't control them selves when i am around then when i leave they behave. If so dose that more then likely mean they would want to get with me just to say they did?

Lol think of it like the hot girl at a bar that has all the men going crazy around her...Think of that but with a pressure cooker ready to explode...Lol women don't do that kind of stuff, when they do, they can be a little crazy.

The fantasizing thing...I can totally see that, I've been experiencing it too. Maybe there is something about having realistic expectations...or it could be that we are no longer fantasizing, dreaming of it because (a) we are happy with ourselves and don't have to prove anything to ourselves (b) those unrealistic women fit into our realistic mindset. One thing that I completely did not realize was that any good-looking 9 or 10 really used to intimidate the crap out of me. Now, it's natural that I feel more calm and comfortable around them and being playful.

makes sense Ryan and "a pressure cooker ready to explode" do you mean like they get all hot and heavy and want you at all times during the day? it just feels like women want me but only when i am around its like when i am not around they forget who i am...but again its only a feeling

Yeah i used to fantasize all the time but i don't now. my friend had asked me what was one sexual fantasy thats crazy and exotic i would love to have sex with some chick at. i said i don't care where the location is if im having sex its about me and her. whether it was in a store or at my house i don't care. that question and a movie i watched the other day made me think of this.

Lol they may think you're not interested...they are trying to get you while they are around you but when you leave they don't want to bother you and come off as being 'clingy'. Show some interest if you want and see what happens.

makes sense, im not showing enough interest besides flirting.