07-11-2016, 03:37 PM
(07-11-2016, 01:49 PM)ALI6NMENT Wrote: Muscles is a big one for me, I only strength train because it makes me feel good, which makes me feel more attractive, which makes me feel more confident which attracts certain type of women.
If I decided one-day I don't want to do this no more then what the women found attractive about me in the first place won't be there, so what's the point doing it in the first place.
I want to be my pure basic self and be OK with being that, then no matter where I go or what I do, I always have my self as I am. I won't need a gym, I won't need to eat enough, I won't feel less confident or less attractive, because I am attractive, confident as I am, my pure basic self.
I want to cut out all the added things, that can easily be lost. If I am confident, attractive and OK as I am, I will never need anything outside of myself and to me that is my genuine self.
If you only do something because of external validation, then it's a good idea to get rid of it. But if you like the gym and the feeling after a session, why stop it? Yes, you're more attractive to women, but you don't do it exclusively for them.
And a women won't stay with you for a long time just because you have a good body, so don't worry about her leaving you when you stop training.
