Shannon's Journal Discussion

[Shannon]

So Shannon, With this MSI, especially the new one coming, I know you mention about attracting them no matter what we are doing, wearing etc etc

How far does this go...

Can I stop getting my haircut, working out, trimming my beard, going on sunbeds, buying nice clothes etc etc ?

There is apart me that does all this just because I think I am more attractive when I do them. But to be honest I dont want to care no more, I don't want to do things to be more attractive to attract women, as I know there are guys out there that don't trim beard, don't workout, have long hair etc etc and still get hot girls.

So me doing these things are making me be someone I am not to get someone that is not attracted to me but an image I have created pretending to be me.

I just want to stop trying to be someone I don't want to be, just let go and attract women that like me for me.

If not, I don't care no more. I would rather be me, the genuine me and attract a girl that likes me for my real self, then pretend to be someone I am not and attract a girl that likes me for this false me.

I feel like just being like **** you, take it or leave it, this is the real me.

I just feel like I am living a lie for women. And I dont want that no more. If it stops me attracting women, I don't care because these women I attract like that are not with me for my genuine self.

And there's always someone better in every single thing ln life you can think of, so why even be sucked into all the BS of competing or trying to stay "on top"

It just makes me so tired now of all this BS and I don't want to be apart of it.

If someone says you have to function in society this way. I say ***** you, why should I?

To be honest if a girl don't like me because I don't have muscles or my hair is not clean cut, or my beard looks messy or my clothes are not in fashion etc etc

I say go duck yourself bit/ch, I ain't being sucked into all that social media, Celebrity BS.

I don't want them fake girls anyway, I like the girls that can see past all this BS.

Girls that can wonder about deeper questions in life....like staring up at starz at night and wondering what is all this human life experience all about?

Not worrying about where to get her nails done or smashing her face in a cake of makeup or watching some stupid TV program like the kardashians, or pouting taking selfies, or taking a picture of her ass in the mirror to put on social media to get validation because "that is how the world is"

OK I am rambling, you get my point.

So I'll give you my second answer first, and then answer your actual questions.

And the second answer is... you will never find a woman who will make you truly happy until you stop faking who and what you are, because by doing that you're mis-aligning yourself with your desires.

The guy you "think" you have to be to attract women, will attract women, but will it attract women who are compatible with you? No, it will attract women looking for what you are pretending you are, which you really aren't.

So when you do that, you are false advertising to them, and then you end up attracting a woman who isn't right for the real you.

When you drop the facade and just let the true you come out, guess what happens?

Those women who are attracted to what and who you actually are show up, and the rest fall away. Tada!

I know it's scary to drop all pretenses, but it's the only way to really attract the women who are going to be right for you and genuinely attracted to the real you.

And now to answer your original question:

How far does this go...

Can I stop getting my haircut, working out, trimming my beard, going on sunbeds, buying nice clothes etc etc ?

Imagine that DMSI is like a magical cloak of sexual irresistibly in a fantasy game setting. Let's say as a guesstimate it gives you a +1 comeliness (good looks) bonus and a +3 charisma bonus.

Now, let's say that by being well groomed and well dressed and smelling good and being clean and showered, you get a natural +3 bonus over what you would have otherwise to your comeliness score. So now you let yourself go and ignore what you don't want to do, and then use DMSI.

Well you just took away your +1 comliness bonus for being well groomed by not caring about your beard and hair. And you take away another +1 bonus for not wearing nice clothes. Presuming you keep yourself clean you don't lose any comeliness or charisma bonus for that.

So whn you make this change, you take your current score and adjust it by -2 for the changes you make in being yourself, and then you adjust the end result by +3 for the bonus DMSI gives you.

Now I am just guessing at the values, and different people will assign different values because every woman is unique in her perceptions of you and her likes and dislikes. But you see my point.

Here's a secret for you: find a woman who loves your natural scent. She will love you regardless of how you look.