07-11-2016, 07:51 AM
(07-11-2016, 07:42 AM)Shannon Wrote: I'm not using scare tactics. I'm telling you what I wish someone had told me when I was in your shoes. And what I wish Dave and Shawn and all the rest had listened to when I tried to help them. I don't need to help you, you're welcome to all the suffering you want. I just don't like seeing people suffer needlessly.
You do what you think works. But your level of understanding is making things seem to be different than they actually are.
You won't believe me for a long time, if you follow in the footsteps of Dave and Shawn. And that's exactly what you're doing, but hey. Some people need to learn the hard way.
Why don't women like me when I'm calm and content then? If that works, sign me up. I just haven't seen it. What should I look for?
I'm serious. I don't want to be angry (it's not my default) so the less energy I have to spend the better. But why is it the only thing that works?
