07-11-2016, 04:46 AM
(07-11-2016, 04:37 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote:(07-11-2016, 04:32 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(07-11-2016, 04:12 AM)Shannon Wrote: 1. Self forgiveness, and forgiveness of others, let go of the past and move on from it
This one is aimed at getting rid of any hate, anger, grudges, etc. you may have that is aimed at a particular gender in general, which would otherwise prevent you from achieving maximum possible success with the program.
Is this such a good idea Shannon? I'm all for forgiveness, but if someone has wronged you and you forgive them without them making it up to you, you are essentially becoming a door mat are you not?
Not to mention it's kind of like putting their needs before your own.
It is a good idea. You are able to blow them off, get whatever incident that is playing over and over in your mind to stop so you can move on with your life.
Yeah that's great, except when it happens again because someone senses that you're the type to forgive instead of stand up for yourself.
