(07-09-2016, 07:00 PM)dissonance Wrote: I think this started because CatMan said "them" in his post, and you thought he was referring to black men, but I think he just meant the stereotypical "bad boy". I'm not sure though. I doubt Catman was referring to black people. If he was though I agree that's a bit uncalled for and I get your furor.
(07-09-2016, 04:02 AM)CatMan Wrote:(07-09-2016, 03:57 AM)terry44 Wrote: Yes, they call men superficial and yet are incredibly impressed by height. And when I was younger and used to go clubbing with a group of people I knew, my black friends did so much better than my white or Asian friends. I mean women used to literally chat them up, but look right through the rest of us.
I can vouch for that.
I've been out of style apparently my whole life, and have gone through the EXACT experience you listed, all through high school, college, club scene, you name it. Yep. Infuriating to me, and led to many beliefs and anger and jealousy, over my life towards "them", I'll admit. Not going further than that, as I don't want any forum rules broken.
EDIT: If he were referring to the "bad boys," why would he be worried about breaking the forum rules? There's no rules against hating bad boys. And I wonder if any of them would say: "Man, women are so superficial. When I went clubbing, they ONLY went for us white guys and totally ignored my black friends."