Shannon's Journal Discussion

[Shannon]

Shannon,

I wanted your input on something I've never seen before and it happened when I was using DMSI.

I was talking with a woman and after about 3 minutes of conversation I noticed one of her hands was trembling. She also seemed to be getting a bit flushed on her chest and her cheeks. But that's not what surprised me so much.

What did surprise me that I'd never seen before was at some point, she tilted her head slightly down and was looking me in the eyes. As she continued to look at me with that head position, she kept licking her lips (not side to side but rather) by moving her tongue straight out about 1/2 an inch to 1 inch and then pulling it straight back into her mouth. She seemed to do this very quickly and she did it more than 4 times.

When I went to leave she said "Thank you". When I asked what she was thanking me for, she said "Just for stopping by". (This is a woman who I'm sure is constantly pursued by men.)

You seem to know quite a bit about body language so your input and insights would be appreciated, Shannon.

The body language you describe is potentially signalling one of two different things. I would have to see video of it to know which it is for sure.

The majority of the probability for what was going on is that she was attracted to you and focused on you as a result. I would say she was signalling that she likes you and is open to getting to know you better if you're interested. I suggest that a gentle offer of doing that might be a good idea.