Shannon's Journal Discussion

[Shannon]

Being Chinese myself, I can rightfully suggest that you must initiate the conversation most of the time. Most traditional Chinese girls almost never act on desires, they'd rather watch a desirable male to pass away rather than saying anything about it. The best scenario is they get their women companions to tell you that she is interested, although it really doesn't happen very often particularly between strangers. It's almost the same with most Asian cultures despite very few personality types... you just need to take actions to make things happen.

In this regard, AOSI might have been improved if it is added statements that make you automatically detect whoever the respondent is and initiate until she is comfortable enough to express her sexual desires. Just imo.

Well, I would have been glad to have started a conversation with her, but it would not have been appropriate for me OR for her. I was entertaining a guest who happened to be female, and she was working.

Now her working is not so bad, but she would have perceived me as likely being involved with this woman, and therefore anything I said would have been considered inappropriate. Furthermore, I could not have done so in that situation without being rude to my guest as a consequence.

So I will simply go back in the future when I am alone and start talking to her. But I don't want to be rude to my guests, and I don't want to be inconsiderate of her either.