06-24-2016, 02:43 PM
(06-24-2016, 01:44 PM)Shannon Wrote: On the contrary, all you're doing is perpetuating and reinforcing the emotional damage they have suffered in the past and then taking advantage of them based on their responses. The right thing to do is heal them. Not further damage them.
Well I've seen it heal them if you combine naughty talk like that with a gentle, patient, loyal approach to the relationship. If your words and actions are both gentle they can lose interest.
