(06-24-2016, 08:33 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Hmmm... how was the sex in the beginning? how long have you guys been married?
The sex was awesome the first year we dated. After "normal" couple fighting, she started withdrawing sexually. After the first year, no more making out. None. She doesn't like it. I felt that took a lot of the intimacy right out of the relationship, but I accepted it. I chalked it up to her first long term boyfriend physically and verbally abusing her. That's a long story. He took her virginity at 14, rescued her from a kidnapping, beat her, shamed her, and wasn't emotionally supportive when she lost her dad in a hunting accident. There's a lot of built-up shit with her, emotional intimacy, and men.
That last time I remember sex being awesome was the night we conceived our son. We were both pretty wasted, and she was a effin' maniac in the sack. It was amazing. Now we're back to regular, but boring (for me), sex. I've had all the "talks," have tried spicing it up - she sighs, huff n' puffs.
But, when I want it - I get it. I just suggested we do so when we put down our son for his afternoon nap. She's in.
Quote:I wouldn't recommend this. It's not "nice" to reject women who come onto you out of ego. Trust me, I know. I used to do it all the time (back when women would approach me, that is). Definitely not healthy and I regret it. One of the few things in my life I regret tbh.
I have no intention of letting women down in a mean or deflating way. I intend to use my marriage and love for my wife as that reason, and in the mean time let them know about all the awesome or positive attributes they have to provide another man. I'm not a dick.[/quote]
Quote:I would say that being married to an alpha who can get pussy from any hot girl he wants would be a desirable thing (for the woman). Read: http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2014/07/1...p-with-it/
I'll be sure to check that out, thanks.
EDIT: I forgot to answer how long we've been married. Sorry. We met in 2008, married in 2012, had our son in 2014.
