Sickologist Wrote:As for your friends gf, she needs to take most of the responsibility because she tried to seduce you. Regardless of AOSI, that's the reality of the situation. What you did, I would never had done unless seriously provoked. That's not morality, I'm saying this because my few close friends are like brothers to me, maybe that's different for you. Before religion, everybody was ***** everybody so to me, sex has nothing to do with it.
I don't believe in karma, but you should watch out as life will punish the shameful.
Yeah this is about where I'm at as far as the situation goes. In essence, when two people decide to have sex the act itself is always 50-50 (otherwise it's rape) however the context and details leading up to the act are a huge factor in many cases. For example, if I had a GF tell me she had sex with a dude because she got somewhat inebriated and caught up in the moment I’d be more inclined to forgive her (not saying I would, but it makes the situation more understandable). In a situation where she was not intoxicated in any shape or fashion (such as this) it would be an immediate breakup.
I personally couldn’t bring myself to sleep with the current gf of a close friend (a past gf is harder for me to speak on) especially since some of the guys I’m cool with I’ve been friends with since I was 12. I am happy that you’ve trusted the forum enough to be as forthcoming with your experiences because it is definitely beneficial for the community to see this stuff. Just be careful CV, protect yourself cause we don't know how this situation is going to go at this point. But since what’s done is done I have some questions for CV (chaosvrgn).
In some of these interactions, it seems to me that some of these women are coming onto you in such a blatant fashion that even with a low level of experience in body language an individual would pick up on this stuff. How much of your own success do you believe is attributable to your own prior experience and expertise in body language?
Also, you mentioned that you have a habit of smiling and saying hi to most of the beautiful women you see when out and about. I’ve been doing this as well and I was intrigued when you stated elsewhere that you’ve actually been getting better reactions from women when you’ve done this. Could you elaborate a little more on this?
In addition, as a fellow African American does the type of food you consume affect your aura? I love myself some fried chicken too (don’t judge me guys) but I wouldn’t want to have to eat fried chicken in order to power up although that would be f*cking hilarious!