06-19-2016, 01:11 AM
Cool story, props for posting it even though you knew the amount of comments you're getting. To me, it looks like the whole thing was so sexual, and the cheating component was so obvious, that there really shouldn't be any need to tell her that's its (just) about sex - especially given how you two had not been courting before. As far as morals go, if it were me I'd be thinking its going to be such a shame if a long friendship gets ruined, because those are much much harder to come by than sex (takes 10 years and special circumstances). Sometimes it feels sex is the only thing that matters, but then you'll see everything else such as friendships and family... and then its back to sex, power, success. Just the two sides. But I do understand that the temptation must've been amazingly fierce, since as guys we don't get that sort of thing handed to us. Plus being that horny you're basically intoxicated. Just yesterday I couldn't read a book while alone in my house because I was so horny, so you're not going to be in your normal analytical mind in a situation like this. My current view of morality is that all we can do is take responsibility for what we do/want, and be honest. In this case being honest is probably not the way to go, but you'll be tested for taking responsibility later on if it comes out. Nobody's perfect. Just gotta take the situation as it is, and do what you need/want to do.
Thoughts, opinions and beliefs subject to change without prior notice.
