Just got back from a night out with the bros (and no, not that bro) and looking over the responses to my post.
I appreciate everyone who shared their thoughts. Real talk -- that's what we're here for. That being said, it's a bit disturbing how everyone's approaching the situation with such black and white, diametrically opposing viewpoints. RTBoss is the only person that even mentioned "shades of grey," casting aside his own relative morality for a moment to explore the situation a bit deeper. (EDIT: Just noticed Ivaylo's post, which kinda hit at the same thing.)
Is the "betrayal of a friend" (and no one bothered to ask how close we actually are) as immoral as you're all making it out to be, or are you passing judgment out of a sense of fear that this could happen to you? In other words -- are you being sincere in your outrage, or solipsistic?
Many of you want to run SM3 and/or AOSI (or you've already done so) for the purpose of having lots of sex with lots of different women. Tell me: Do you plan on informing these women of your intentions to use them solely as a human sex toy and/or source of validation? If not, when their feelings are inevitably hurt, are you going to ditch your plans of f*cking lots of hotties, or will you somehow cast aside their emotional pain as a "natural" part of life, or something?
At the end of the day, emotional impact is emotional impact, right? So what's the difference between the emotional turmoil my friend would experience if he finds out and the emotional pain you'll consciously, intentionally inflict on the women you will inevitably leave in your wake once you pump and dump 'em?
Why is one okay, but not the other? A few posts ago, my man flat out said "Bitches on the other hand are fcking everywhere. In no way or form i would put a bitch before my friends[.]"
Damn. NEVER? For ANY REASON? Why's that? Do you consider women a lesser form of a life? You believe their emotions don't matter because they process reality differently than we do? Isn't that thought process as equally "immoral" as what you're accusing me of?
Ask yourself this: What I did, did that serve as a window or a mirror to your own innermost fears and desires? You're mad because I broke your personal sense of morality, but your morality exists only to benefit yourself. It's not for the betterment of humanity. It's to protect your own interests. I broke free of that nonsensical frame of thought a long time ago, allowing others to dictate my will, control my desires -- and for what?
So, be pious if you want. Cast judgment if you want. But, if you're running any sexual related sub because you want to get an edge over women, make sure you tell every woman you f*ck that you've reprogrammed your subconscious for the sole purpose of sleeping with her, and that you have no intentions of moving beyond physical intimacy. OR -- you could just stop whining and enjoy the ride.
I'm not making excuses for what I did. Never will. I indulged. Now, I will deal with the consequences (or lack thereof) like a man -- head on.
I appreciate everyone who shared their thoughts. Real talk -- that's what we're here for. That being said, it's a bit disturbing how everyone's approaching the situation with such black and white, diametrically opposing viewpoints. RTBoss is the only person that even mentioned "shades of grey," casting aside his own relative morality for a moment to explore the situation a bit deeper. (EDIT: Just noticed Ivaylo's post, which kinda hit at the same thing.)
Is the "betrayal of a friend" (and no one bothered to ask how close we actually are) as immoral as you're all making it out to be, or are you passing judgment out of a sense of fear that this could happen to you? In other words -- are you being sincere in your outrage, or solipsistic?
Many of you want to run SM3 and/or AOSI (or you've already done so) for the purpose of having lots of sex with lots of different women. Tell me: Do you plan on informing these women of your intentions to use them solely as a human sex toy and/or source of validation? If not, when their feelings are inevitably hurt, are you going to ditch your plans of f*cking lots of hotties, or will you somehow cast aside their emotional pain as a "natural" part of life, or something?
At the end of the day, emotional impact is emotional impact, right? So what's the difference between the emotional turmoil my friend would experience if he finds out and the emotional pain you'll consciously, intentionally inflict on the women you will inevitably leave in your wake once you pump and dump 'em?
Why is one okay, but not the other? A few posts ago, my man flat out said "Bitches on the other hand are fcking everywhere. In no way or form i would put a bitch before my friends[.]"
Damn. NEVER? For ANY REASON? Why's that? Do you consider women a lesser form of a life? You believe their emotions don't matter because they process reality differently than we do? Isn't that thought process as equally "immoral" as what you're accusing me of?
Ask yourself this: What I did, did that serve as a window or a mirror to your own innermost fears and desires? You're mad because I broke your personal sense of morality, but your morality exists only to benefit yourself. It's not for the betterment of humanity. It's to protect your own interests. I broke free of that nonsensical frame of thought a long time ago, allowing others to dictate my will, control my desires -- and for what?
So, be pious if you want. Cast judgment if you want. But, if you're running any sexual related sub because you want to get an edge over women, make sure you tell every woman you f*ck that you've reprogrammed your subconscious for the sole purpose of sleeping with her, and that you have no intentions of moving beyond physical intimacy. OR -- you could just stop whining and enjoy the ride.
I'm not making excuses for what I did. Never will. I indulged. Now, I will deal with the consequences (or lack thereof) like a man -- head on.
