06-18-2016, 05:44 PM
There's definitely growth to be had here. I'm not judging. Seriously. I know what temptation is, but I've never been faced with it like that (read:tested). I'd like to think that I'd take the moral high ground.
I'm using AOSI for many reasons, not all of them "good." 1.) I like new tech. I want to be the guinea pig. 2.) I want to add a new dimension of attraction to a 4-year-old marriage, one that I've put major stress on resulting from being unhappy with myself. 3.) My ego. I'm still trying to make up for being the nerd in middle school who didn't get the girl and wants the attention the popular kids always got. 4.) To test myself. I want to be the guy who says "You're beautiful, thanks for the attention, but 'NO - I love my wife.'" 5.) Personal growth. Kinda coincides with a few of the previous reasons.
I'm using AOSI for many reasons, not all of them "good." 1.) I like new tech. I want to be the guinea pig. 2.) I want to add a new dimension of attraction to a 4-year-old marriage, one that I've put major stress on resulting from being unhappy with myself. 3.) My ego. I'm still trying to make up for being the nerd in middle school who didn't get the girl and wants the attention the popular kids always got. 4.) To test myself. I want to be the guy who says "You're beautiful, thanks for the attention, but 'NO - I love my wife.'" 5.) Personal growth. Kinda coincides with a few of the previous reasons.
