(06-13-2016, 09:56 PM)AbundanceCH Wrote:(06-13-2016, 04:48 PM)chaosvrgn Wrote: So, I'm inviting her to a group meet up with my friends next week. That way, she won't feel like she's having a "date" and cheating on her boyfriend. Just hanging out with a potential friend.
Don't get used to playing games with women and trying to come up with elaborate schemes and plans to get them this will only hurt you in the long run. Always seek a level playing field at least or possibly one where you have an advantage. A woman's attention goes from place to place with a ton of things running through their minds they are not like men. We can focus on one thing at a time.
So you giving a woman a chance to focus not just on you but on friends and other people you are not putting yourself on a level playing field or at an advantage. You want to be in situations where you are the only one they are paying attention to so you can work your magic. Stop trying to play it safe!
And this will hurt you in the long run because you will always do this same thing. Games, schemes to try to increase your chances rather than just doing the manly straight up thing which is being alone with them which is what you really want.
Always seek a level playing field or an advantage to you or you just let her go. No fear of losing them which of course you gotta remember they are not even yours to begin with. There are plenty of women out there and a mentality of scarcity is one where you feel like you have to play games or develop schemes to increase your chances like if they are the last woman on earth. If a woman doesn't want to meet you alone for coffee or whatever at a public place you are already swimming against the tide.
Just be manly. You + her + alone + drinks or coffee. That's it.
About a month ago I met a woman and I asked her out on the same day. We were due to meet and she sends me a message she wants to invite 2 friends and catches me by surprise. I'm not in the business of being friends with women or her friends i'm only in the business of fk** women so I told her I had to cancel. When she asked me why I bailed I told her straight up cause I think she's sexy and I wanted to get to know her one on one. She replied she wishes I would have told her that.
The moment you stop being afraid of losing a prospect/stop trying to play it safe you will begin attracting more women into your life. And that is simply because you no longer have a scarcity mentality and thus the universe will bring more women to you without you doing much.
Hey man --
I appreciate the tips and reminders fam, always good to get 'em, but look at my post history. I ain't new to this gambit. That last year I lived out west, I'm sure I've engaged in more debauchery in a year than many will in a lifetime.
I invited her out to a group setting because she has a boyfriend and was refusing to come out because it felt like a "date." So, I told her to come out with me and my friends. And I'm only doing this for the science of AOSI, honestly couldn't care less because there's a thousand generic blondes where I live. If she wants to run off with one of my friends, meh, let her. But I doubt that'll happen... they aren't equipped with AM6 + AOSI.
I'm also in the process of closing a one-on-one date with another chick. That's AOSI test two. Just doing it for the science man, I'm actually rather uninterested in women at the moment and heavily focused on myself. I was just talking to my good friend while chatting with women on Tinder and I found myself so freaking bored with these basic chicks. Literally, if I wasn't having so much fun with these AM6 + AOSI tests, I'd so just opt-out of the "game" right now.
On another note, though...
I had a rather odd AOSI-experience a few hours ago. Fell asleep. When I woke up, I had this really weird urge to run AOSI (as stated above). In addition, I was REALLY, REALLY ANGRY -- something I've been experiencing throughout my entire second AM6 run, this omnidirectional, diffused RAAAAAAAAGE!™ at everything. Suddenly, the RAAAAAAGE!™ subsided (like, almost instantly) and AOSI's aura began to project. HARD. I mean, it was crazy. I hadn't eaten anything, but I did have half a small can of Red Bull. I suddenly began to feel completely zen, at peace and super sexy.
Here's the weird thing. I haven't run AOSI since last Thursday. Not only is the programming still there, but it's still capable of having me project an aura. And now, it's 3:00a here and I've got crazy insomnia. I've taken melatonin and there's no hint of sleepiness occurring.
If I had to guess, the programming was STILL being processed, or maybe I was having some serious resistance and it finally broke through, allowing the repressed programming to express itself. OR, the OGSF in AOSI is enhancing the OGSF in AM6 and it's causing me to have breakthroughs.
EDIT: This may answer a few questions for AOSI users who are also experiencing the same kind of intense resistance --
(12-09-2014, 11:23 PM)Shannon Wrote: Resistance comes in different ways. Bursts of intense resistance can be one of those ways. It usually happens that way in response to achieving some goal of the program's that frightens some part of your subconscious and causes a short term push for control. Eventually, the fear generating programming will be overcome and it will stop.
I feel absolutely great right now, except for the fact that I can't sleep and I have a huge business meeting in about six hours.
