06-13-2016, 09:56 PM
(This post was last modified: 06-13-2016, 10:20 PM by AbundanceCH.)
(06-13-2016, 04:48 PM)chaosvrgn Wrote: So, I'm inviting her to a group meet up with my friends next week. That way, she won't feel like she's having a "date" and cheating on her boyfriend. Just hanging out with a potential friend.
Don't get used to playing games with women and trying to come up with elaborate schemes and plans to get them this will only hurt you in the long run. Always seek a level playing field at least or possibly one where you have an advantage. A woman's attention goes from place to place with a ton of things running through their minds they are not like men. We can focus on one thing at a time.
So you giving a woman a chance to focus not just on you but on friends and other people you are not putting yourself on a level playing field or at an advantage. You want to be in situations where you are the only one they are paying attention to so you can work your magic. Stop trying to play it safe!
And this will hurt you in the long run because you will always do this same thing. Games, schemes to try to increase your chances rather than just doing the manly straight up thing which is being alone with them which is what you really want.
Always seek a level playing field or an advantage to you or you just let her go. No fear of losing them which of course you gotta remember they are not even yours to begin with. There are plenty of women out there and a mentality of scarcity is one where you feel like you have to play games or develop schemes to increase your chances like if they are the last woman on earth. If a woman doesn't want to meet you alone for coffee or whatever at a public place you are already swimming against the tide.
Just be manly. You + her + alone + drinks or coffee. That's it.
About a month ago I met a woman and I asked her out on the same day. We were due to meet and she sends me a message she wants to invite 2 friends and catches me by surprise. I'm not in the business of being friends with women or her friends i'm only in the business of fk** women so I told her I had to cancel. When she asked me why I bailed I told her straight up cause I think she's sexy and I wanted to get to know her one on one. She replied she wishes I would have told her that.
The moment you stop being afraid of losing a prospect/stop trying to play it safe you will begin attracting more women into your life. And that is simply because you no longer have a scarcity mentality and thus the universe will bring more women to you without you doing much.
