Joining that EPRHA 2.0 Bandwagon

[Nox]

I remember having sexual preference thoughts also, but I stayed with my established preference.m cool thing is that if I'd have ended up switching it around I don't think it would have bothered me, just been similar to what it seems like you're having. Maybe just not sure how to proceed kind of things.

Also, ditto on empathy being as much curse as blessing. Try being strongly empathetic and taking an all day trip to the dmv to stand in line for a license renewal in California if you think it's a gift. You'll come out just this side of the mental hospital if you don't have your barriers up.