WildFlower's 2011 Alpha Male Journal

[Cortez]

hey man, so youre next subs are SM? i thought in your post that you felt this connection about being in a monogamous relationship with a women. just wondering what goes into your mind...

I'll be using SM at some point. And your right, I'd sooner be in a monogamous relationship than have a lot of friends with benefits. I just happen to think that the best way to end up in a monogamous relationship is to play the field. I don't see how Sex Magnet is in contradiction to that? I could use some help with escalation, that's my primary interest in SM.

I don't see how it's a contradiction to it either. I don't ever actively look for a monogamous relationship, but truth be told, I want one girl that I am attracted to on all levels and so I am open to a relationship with one girl should I meet one that I really want to be with. I've been too much of a libertine for far too long, lol and it doesn't hold that much interest for me anymore. I've discovered that having an amazing connection with a girl can be much hotter than any kind of ego validation that I may get from sleeping with a lot of women. However, being a guy that is completely without neediness and able to attract just about any woman he wants is how you attract what you want to begin with and make sure that you're not settling for any less than the deep connection you desire. Having the ability to walk away from anything less than what you want is a great feeling. So my reasons for starting Sex Magnet are similar to yours, I think and from what I've experienced in the month I've been listening to it, I was completely right in assuming it would be a good set for me to do.