05-31-2016, 05:13 AM
Honestly, I don't know if YOU can. These situations I've found generally revolve around, not so much just from personal experience, but knowing tons of girls who do these things to other guys:
1. You doing something that turned her off somehow, neediness etc. So a bit of space is what she is creating. Probably best not to crowd her if this is so, as that will just tend to prove to her that distancing herself was the right choice and will just make her create MORE distance.
2. She met some other guy, and is evaluating him, and backburning-ing you to do so.
3. Some ex has come back around in her life somehow, and is also evaluating him, and is backburning-ing you to do so.
In case 1, best thing to do is distance, also to show your lack of need etc. In the other two, there isn't much you can do, as YOU did nothing wrong. Those are harder to deal with obviously.
I hope things pan out for you, man. You're a great guy that has helped me a lot. You're solid, whether or not she appreciates that.
1. You doing something that turned her off somehow, neediness etc. So a bit of space is what she is creating. Probably best not to crowd her if this is so, as that will just tend to prove to her that distancing herself was the right choice and will just make her create MORE distance.
2. She met some other guy, and is evaluating him, and backburning-ing you to do so.
3. Some ex has come back around in her life somehow, and is also evaluating him, and is backburning-ing you to do so.
In case 1, best thing to do is distance, also to show your lack of need etc. In the other two, there isn't much you can do, as YOU did nothing wrong. Those are harder to deal with obviously.
I hope things pan out for you, man. You're a great guy that has helped me a lot. You're solid, whether or not she appreciates that.
