05-30-2016, 09:54 PM
(05-30-2016, 09:38 PM)Shannon Wrote: Ah, I see. Well, it sounds to me like you're in a transition state. Not quite one thing or the other, and in-congruent in both. Women don't like that, it confuses and scares them. The solution is to keep going until you achieve whatever you've been working to achieve.
You may also be attempting to follow contradictory advice. Pick one direction, and double down on it.
Internal resistance to change also seems to be a theme for you, which is based in fear 99.9999999% of the time. What do you fear?
But what I've been trying to achieve has been plagued by morality. When I first started getting good with women, it was purely to get sex from them. That's it. Now people tell me the only way to get sex is to not want to get sex and to see women as human beings, but that's not what I want, so wtf?
I had a woman go out with me once who told me I treated her. Like a human being and yet I can tell you honestly I didn't see her as anything. I'm thinking the only solution is to embrace that.
Yeah, contradictory advice is right "just be yourself" "learn to love women" myself doesn't love women. That kind of shit has been undermining my progress ever since I've got into pick up.
As for fear, I fear death. I never want to die.
