05-29-2016, 05:39 PM
@360
I get what you're saying. Generally I think this program works from the outside in. I'm at a completely different mindset from when I started AM a year ago. I used to think my value was directly correlated to the amount of money I had. This was my workaholic phase, then SM3 I became my own boss and my general lifestyle shows my value. Now it's gone a step further where I won't have to "work" in order to be self dependant. I read something you once wrote about alphas being leaders of themselves and not being responsible for other people's general success. I understood this concept however I found myself living like I wouldn't be an example to other people except in theory. I took care of myself but not caring how other people could relate. Now being a more self confident a secure man I notice I can give this advice but there's still a bit of hesitation from connecting with other people. I'm sure it will get better though.
I get what you're saying. Generally I think this program works from the outside in. I'm at a completely different mindset from when I started AM a year ago. I used to think my value was directly correlated to the amount of money I had. This was my workaholic phase, then SM3 I became my own boss and my general lifestyle shows my value. Now it's gone a step further where I won't have to "work" in order to be self dependant. I read something you once wrote about alphas being leaders of themselves and not being responsible for other people's general success. I understood this concept however I found myself living like I wouldn't be an example to other people except in theory. I took care of myself but not caring how other people could relate. Now being a more self confident a secure man I notice I can give this advice but there's still a bit of hesitation from connecting with other people. I'm sure it will get better though.
